This column was contributed by Marci Sherman, MSW, the Living Well Director at Porters Neck Village.



When Sandy, Clare, and Joyce each lost their husbands, they were faced with the same daunting question: how do you move forward when life suddenly feels so different?

At first, the days felt heavy. Each of them struggled in their own way to adjust to the quiet moments, the empty routines, and the loneliness that followed. But within the supportive environment of Porters Neck Village, they found a lifeline.

Through the community’s grief support group, these three women began to share their stories. What started as tentative conversations soon grew into something deeper — empathy, laughter, and the comfort of being understood by someone who truly knows what you’re going through. Their bond was strengthened not only by shared loss but by shared hope.

Today, that friendship has grown into something remarkable. Sandy, Clare, and Joyce are not just friends, they’re travel companions, packing their bags for a European adventure. What began as a circle of healing has transformed into a sisterhood ready to embrace new experiences and rediscover joy.

Their story is a testament to the power of community. At Porters Neck Village, support extends far beyond programs and amenities. It’s about connection, compassion, and friendships that help residents not only live, but thrive.


 
Marci Sherman, MSW, is the Living Well Director at Porters Neck Village, where she proudly claims to have the best job in the world. With over 30 years of experience as a senior non-profit executive and program innovator, Marci has dedicated her career to creating impactful programs that inspire engagement and enrich lives. Her passion for wellness, leadership, and lifelong learning continues to drive her mission to help others live their best lives every day.